Puzzle Pieces

Had the best conversation with my little sister last night. This was the advice she gave me using a puzzle piece as her analogy:

You can always force a piece to fit but, sometimes there's just a better fit. Or it's like a pair of jeans, you can fit into a 1 if you really wanted but, maybe a 3 would work better. (but she really can fit into 1s if she wants I'm pretty sure). 

 We talked about when you're a little kid and you're convinced that two puzzle pieces go together, they just have to! So you sit there and smash it until you make it fit and eventually you can but, that doesn't necessarily mean it's supposed to fit. I liked that. The only way to know if something fits is to be completely honest with yourself first.